Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Project 365, Week 17

Life feels like its moving very fast and its tough to keep up. Full and fun is fair to say.

April 20
The backstory is tedious, but I ended up needing to do scans in the city. From Alabama, we dropped Amanda off at school and then drove into the city, having secured a hotel within walking distance of the MSK building. We were absolutely delighted with our delicious free breakfast! This picture reflects my lack of scanxiety. Had I even given it a thought, I would have remembered that I wasn't supposed to eat before a PET scan. Oops! 


When you're in and around the cancer center, its easy to spot who's who. The loved one is lugging all the gear, prepared to sit for long hours in a waiting room, and the patient is the one sleeping. 🤣

We stopped to smell the tulips on the way. NYC does seasons well.





It was a very long day to do all the scans, but finally after a 9-5 day, we reclaimed our car and headed out. We were pleasantly surprised at how smooth the drive went. It went so well we even had time for a stop at Wegmans.

This girl has seen so much, had to do so much. I appreciate her willingness and her love. She's also especially gifted with figuring out logistics, a nice compliment to my lack.



April 21
My first day home after tax season and it felt so good to be home with nothing pressing. I breathed in spring.


The boys made some progress on clearing the fallen trees and branches at the office. What an improvement in just a few hours!


April 22
End of tax season, four-office wrap up/celebration. As owner, boss and preparer, Nathan carries a heavy weight but you wouldn't know it. He is an exception businessman...savvy, ethical, caring and he's built a great team.


April 23
I'm watching you, little bird and you better not be making a nest in my front door wreaths!


April 24
A year ago, Amanda had just finished her first year at Summit and just like last year, she called me while she was in the bathroom doing her part of the final campus cleanup. We gave thanks for the unthinkable miracles we have experienced, that she would be completing her first year of Bible college and that I was alive. 



And later that day we were on her campus! The school had a special meeting for the parents and then after, invited everyone to a picnic, with volleyball and cornhole and kite-flying, etc. I had a couple deep conversations with two people I'd never met while Amanda and Shaun played cornhole. It was nice spending time in her space.






On our way out, someone was alone, playing the grand piano. We sat to listen and enjoy. It wasn't long at all before a few started to wander in and before we knew it, about a dozen people were gathered around, worshipping. It was beautiful. 


We joined up with the kids who were settling in for a night of games at the hotel.


April 25
Later than I was awake for, Amy arrived with her girls, Renna, Kelly, Juliet and Baby Bo. We had a leisurely morning at the hotel before heading over to the campus....



...to see this happen!!! (Which I'll post separately)


April 26
Jack was still on a missions trip in Peru with his dad, so Avery was camped at our house. I stopped the kids for a second, reveling in the fact that they were all in my kitchen, messing around with each other like thousands of other mornings we've had. When you look back, its the little things that you end up caring about.


Moving back. :)




After we watched our favorite keeper play, we enjoyed a thrown-together DiSalvaCour time.


Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Project 365, Week 16

The heading of this week is tax season is over!! Onward!

April 13
The volume we do in the last couple weeks! So many panicked people, so much triple checking our work.


April 14
Aiden has taken his picky-eater-ness and used it as motivation to cook for himself. 


April 15
First morning of the season it was warm enough to be on the screened-in porch!  As much as I love being social, I also need large swaths of time alone, quiet. Before the sun is up is that time.


Happy birthday, Shaun! Avery and Jack came over and we had a very brief celebration with takeout. Mostly, we were all so relieved to have another tax season wrapped up. Also, we needed to get to bed because...


April 16
...the next morning Avery and I left at 4am to drive to Alabama. Yes, Alabama. 

Amanda's roommate from last year, Journey, was getting married and Amanda was a bridesmaid. There were various complications to her flying, so we offered to deliver her. 


We stopped very briefly to pick Amanda, her school being right on the way.


I was remembering our April trips to Florida. For many years we would leave around the dinner hour so the kids would sleep for the bulk of the time. And now, just like that, I'm sitting in the back and the girls are driving. Pretty crazy, and also kind of nice. We are multi-generational road-trippers so we got after it.


As someone who grew up doing long road trips with no screens, I could not have been more delighted to see this billboard.




 After dropping Amanda at her roommate's house, we were thankful to get to our place and crash.


April 17


In search of coffee the next morning, I found a charming spot.



Avery and I had the days to ourselves and a highlight was checking out the new store that just opened in town. The locals were thrilled and we heard there was even a parade to celebrate the grand opening.



Aiden was away at Youth Convention for the weekend and naturally he didn't send any pictures so I stole this one. Some services and lots of not sleeping.


Avery and I were invited to the rehearsal dinner. Being a casual observer, it stood out to me what a tight knit community they have. Journey grew up on the grounds of Adullum International Ministry, doing life alongside a group of families who are supporting incarcerated mothers and their children.


April 18
A little trip over the bridge on the way to coffee. After a little walk around the Main Street area, I went back to the house and brought Avery back once she was up.






It looked different, but we had our annual April palm tree sighting. :)




The two moms and their community did such a nice job transforming the pavilion, that normally serves as a basketball court, into a wispy wedding venue. 







Just like at Avery's wedding, the family started and then everyone joined in, singing The Blessing over the new couple. What a powerful, beautiful gift.

The Lord bless you and keep you
Make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you
The Lord turn His face toward you
And give you peace








April 19
Then we were up at 3am to head back north, so Amanda could be back for finals the next day and I could be in the city for scans.


The drive was so pretty, watching spring come alive in all shades of green and pinks and purples.




We stopped in at Amanda's dorm to use the restroom and when I walked into the lounge I found it deserted, but with the refrigerator door left wide open (also SO full!). Ha!


The best road warrior buddies. We said goodbye and Avery and I hit the road for New York City.



I took the first shift of driving at 3am in nowhere Alabama on dark, windy roads surrounded by cow pastures. I took the last shift of driving at 10pm through Times Square in Manhattan. What a day!