Wednesday, September 9, 2026

Porject 365, Week 34

School talk means the winding down of the summer, which is kind of sad, though I feel like we pulled so much goodness out of these last months so I plant my heart on gratitude.

August 17
Last summer there was considerable discussion before we settled on pulling Aiden from public school and instead have him home doing online college classes for credit. This summer there was no discussion at all because there is no looking back for him...he is highly uninterested in any of the trappings that tradition school offers. Every kid, every family is different and for him and for us, it works well. 

As a high school student he can take two free classes a semester through our state's community colleges. In an attempt to get expertise regarding the program he's working towards, I took him this day in-person. Largely it was as I thought...we're on our own to figure it out. Which is ok. I love getting time with my boy any way that it happens. 

Senior year of high school/second year of college...let's go!!


Ginger appreciated the company that appeared after having the twins over on the weekend. :)


August 18
Creating money-making opportunities for others means hands-on for me, but I love being outside getting something accomplished. Its the earliest I've planted mums, but I wasn't sure when I'd feel up to it again.


Stolen moments with my first born. I'm not doing it perfectly, but I love our friendship that's blooming now that she's an adult.


August 19
Despite all my motivational quotes displayed, this would be the one and only time with this workout partner. 


August 20
Amanda grabbed Renna and we went to help Avery paint her living room.


August 21
I spent some time making the lake house 'prospective tenant showing ready'. Its such a gift to be there, looking out at the water, feeling the breeze, scrubbing toilets, being sanctified. ;)


August 22
Amanda and Shaun loaded up a dorm rooms' worth of belongings into two cars. Then we picked up Jason and Trevor and drove Amanda back to school in PA.


Within seconds of driving through the gate, the kids who were playing in the staff housing area dropped what they were doing and ran to greet Amanda. It was super sweet to see how clearly she is loved and how happy she was to be back.




This is Amanda's dorm for the year, but her room would not be ready for another week, so we carried what she would need immediately and then stuffed her car with the rest. 



This made me smile. Bear and Doggy have been her bosom friends since the beginning and they know her heart the very best.


We stalled for a bit and then within an hour we gave hugs and were back on the road headed home. 

Amanda will serve as an intern, working with the campus pastor and also his wife who is the vice-president of the school. The VP is such a kind and generous women and she is a boss lady who gets things done, and with excellence. I'm grateful Amanda has the opportunity to learn under her.




As it happened, on the car ride these photos came up from 17 years ago, a very average afternoon at the local splash pad with three kids 4 and under. What I knew in part then and have learned even more fully these years later is that the mundane, average day is not ordinary at all.

As we press forward, each new day is a chance to look for the extraordinary in the ordinary.


August 23
After church we spent some time at Avery and Jack's.


Amanda checked in from the Amish farm she was hanging at a friend's grandparents house.


 

Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Numbering Days, Week 215-219


Just a quick check-in since its been a month. Already we've cleared out of two treatments and last time was #50. FIFTY. My brain actually can't process that number. I remember back to 12 years ago when we started and thought that eight rounds would be it. Those eight felt like such a tall mountain to climb and each treatment was its own beast. To have done that fifty times, my mind cannot comprehend. 


On that day, sitting in the infusion chair, hooked up to all manner of toxic fluids, I refused to spend the time needed to process how I felt about it. Ultimately it really doesn't matter because its a case of it is what it is.

Outside of cancer, life is full and stretching. I'm continually amazed at how sinful I am and how patient God is. 

Cancer comes with a pair of glasses. When I put them on, its clear to see how precious life is and with lightning speed I'm able to sort through life and put things in important and non important piles. I do it imperfectly, but I'm trying to major on the important and minor on the unimportant. 

I have to (get to) head out in a few minutes for another round. I guess what I want to say is, collectively, let's keep showing up to life. Get the toxic chemicals, dust off the Bible, confide in a friend, seek counseling....let's climb the hill in front of us; face the hard and determine to move forward. The hill is not an obstacle, its the way to a remarkable and more abundant life.

Monday, August 17, 2026

Project 365, Week 33

Straight from the trip and the lake weekend, we headed into a hard week. We carry on.

August 10
Spent some time pacing the back patio while discussing some things with God.


Dang it...back at it. But with the prettiest girl by my side.


August 11
They overlapped on a shift. :)


August 12
Shaun checks in nearly every morning with stunning shots of daybreak at the golf course. I'm so thankful he gets those early morning hours to himself...the rest of life places heavy responsibilities on him.


August 13
I thought it was sweet that the kids organized an evening together.


August 14
My first day "out", finally able to see beauty again.


August 15
I tend to gather people who wouldn't naturally be found in a group, except they are all somehow with me. Take my road crew for the day. :) 

We left about 6AM for the 3.5 hour road trip to New York for Trevor's graduation. The kids slept most of the way and as time went on I was feeling better and better.


The day was just beautiful and with the backdrop of the campus grounds it was jaw-dropping. We got to watch Trevor graduate from his 2-year gap program at Word of Life, a commitment that also included two summers.









After a delicious meal in the cafeteria, we got changed and went cliff jumping. I was napping in the car for the first part but got there in time to see Dakota jump, after 45 minutes of working up the nerve. Partly it was fun to watch everyone and partly my brain kept saying, "feet first!".










August 16
Fun finds at the church cafe.


Then we went to the lake to meet up with Avery and Jack and the babies.